I am much madder that he lied than that he has a female friend that he gets lunch with.

Regarding the original girl, he just didn’t want to tell me because he thought I’d be mad. I feel like I’d be very disturbed if I were one of these women and knew that he still had these photos. He insists he has never gone back to this folder while we were together. I am still very upset that he lied about his relationship level with several people and the pictures he had of me and that he violated his coworker’s privacy as well.

I checked through time stamps and I don’t believe any of this was sent during the duration of our relationship together.

He is an IT professional with access to all of his coworkers computers. Several of the women in the photos were women he swore up and down to me were just childhood friends/coworkers and that I had nothing to worry about even though he had daily conversations with one and the other would text him heart and I love you’s.Īfter some discussion he admitted that some of the pictures he had taken off of his coworkers computer without their consent. In each folder was pictures of nudes his ex’s and hookups had sent him, pictures of him or her performing sexual acts on each other, and pictures of me that were taken while I was so black out drunk I couldn’t remember them being taken. What I discovered was a Dropbox folder with a bunch of folders with women’s initials. We have access to each other’s phones to play each other’s dumb games when one of us isn’t felling well but I have always respected his privacy up until this point. Being really angry and insecure about it I then went through his phone. I went into the text messages and found out that he had been lying about talking to and grabbing lunches with one of his current friends from work. This past week, I was playing a game we play together on his iPad when a questionable text came in. When I asked about them, he told me that they were just friends and that nothing had happened between them. Throughout the course of our relationship, a few women would constantly reach out to him. We’ve been together for 5+ years and engaged for just the past few months.

Dropbox nudes dump